Saturday, August 7, 2010

We are not a Glum Lot

"We are not a glum lot" is a quote from Alcoholics Anonymous big book.  I forget to use this slogan in my daily recover quite often.  As, a child of alcoholics, I have learned that I take myself too seriously most of the time.  I worry too much about doing things right, being perfect, especially when it comes to my role as a mom, wife, and sponsor.  My anxiety comes from a fear of not doing or saying the right thing and of disappointing others or causing them harm.  I am very hard on myself.  So, in light of bringing some humor to my day today, I feel a nudge to tell you about two different conversations I had with my five year old daughter recently.

While eating corn on the cob at dinner:
Daughter:  Mommy, how do they get the corn to stay on the cob?
Me:  It just grows that way, honey.
Daughter:  I think they glue it on.

While brushing our teeth this morning:
Daughter:  Mommy, why is that thing hanging down in the back of my mouth?
(She was referring to her uvula and I honestly, I didn't know what it's function is until I looked it up)
Me:  I'm not sure.
Daughter:  I think it is there so the food can go down one side and the water goes down the other side.




Makes sense to me - LOL!
Also, did you know that some people pierce their uvula? 
Now that's funny.



I also feel nudged to tell you about dAAve's blog, which gives me daily doses of humor.  Thanks, Dave!
I am grateful that I don't have to take myself so seriously all of the time.  I am grateful that I have friends that remind me.  Easy Does It... 

3 comments:

  1. marie, the admonishment is so true!! my parents were not alcoholics but everything you 'learned' to do are the very same things i struggle with! i felt as if i were under a little dark cloud no matter how wonderful things were for me. i'm still that person but it takes work to realize and live each day in the Sonshine :)...i'm gettin' there ;)

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  2. I also love dAAve's blog :)

    and that quote from the BB, "we are not a glum lot"

    It's totally one of my faves :)

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  3. I always liked the word uvula. It sounds kinda nasty but isn't. Piercing of the uvula must be weird.

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Thank you for sharing!